Which curl/wave definer is better?

I have kinda wavy hair, it use to be really wavy and curly but i don't know what happened. My hair can get really frizzy and puffy and so i straighten my hair pretty much everyday. I want to change up my hair and not use my Straightener everyday and i want wavy or curly hair.i have a chi Straightener, i do deep conditioner in my hair, and leave in conditioner also. i have some examples down here and i wanted to hear what you guys say. ( if there are other products you guys like tell me) thanks



p.s. i don't want my hair to be greasy, ';crunchy';, and not really hard.



-herbal essences totally twisted curl scrunching gel

-herbal essences totally twisted curl boosting mouse



-the aussie catch the wave mousse+ leave-in conditioner

-aussie sprunch catch the wave hair spray



-Garnier Fructis Hydra-Curls leave in conditioning cream



-Curls Soft Waves and Curls Styling Milk

-Curls curl Shaper anti-frizz creme

-any other of those pantene products



-nexxus



and other products and can you also help me with how you use itWhich curl/wave definer is better?
Any gel will leave your hair crunchy. So the best thing to use is mousse, creme, or a styling milk.



I hoped I helped at least a little!